MIRROR

This suggests that you may be failing to see who your partner really is. In fact, your partner is a

reflection of a very, very deep part of you. Your partner can either mirror your good side or your bad side, and if you look very closely, with the eyes of the heart, you will see that your partner ultimately mirrors our soul. Since you might not be close enough to your partner to see that soul, you may have to take this understanding step by step. Why is it important to see your partner as a reflection of yourself? Because whatever you do to your partner, if you recognize that s/he is your reflection, you will quickly realize that you are doing the same thing to yourself. If you attack your partner, you are attacking yourself. You could see this very easily, were you to check inside when interacting with your mate. When you try to hurt him/her you would see yourself feeling hurt by your own behaviour. When you love your partner, you would feel yourself being loved inside.

鏡子

這提示你也許並沒有看到伴侶真正的內涵. 事實上伴侶反射了你內在非常, 非常深層的部份. 伴侶會反射你好的部份, 也會反射坏的部份, 如果你仔細去看, 用心的去看, 就會看到, 伴侶最終反映了你的靈魂. 或許你還不夠接近伴侶, 故看不到你的靈魂, 因此你需要按部就班的深層了解. 為什麼把伴侶看成是自身的反射是那麼重要呢? 那是因為你認識到的他/她是你的內心反射, 無論你對伴侶做些什麼, 你會即刻明白, 你是在對自身做著同樣的事. 如果你攻擊伴侶, 你就是在攻擊自己. 當你與伴侶互動時, 若是能夠內省, 就會輕易看到這點. 當你試圖傷害他/她時, 你會看到你本身也受自己的行為所傷害. 當你愛伴侶時, 你內心也會感到被愛.